The Mentoring Process — MENTOR (Model, Empathize, Nurture, Teach)
MENTORING Acronym
MENTORING Acronym
The mentoring model, M – E – N – T – O – R – I – N – G, demonstrates the concepts of effective mentoring.
Letters Match Concepts
The elements of effective mentoring correspond to the letters in the word itself.
Model
Model
An effective mentor, serving as a role model, understands that actions speak louder than words.
Protégé Observation
Protégé Observes/Learns
The protégé constantly observes and learns from the mentor.
Variety of Situations
Variety of Situations
The opportunity to see how the mentor deals with a variety of situations is an important part of the mentoring process.
Empathize
Empathize
Mentoring requires the ability to empathize and show genuine compassion for protégés.
Remember Inexperience
Remember Inexperience
Mentors who remember what it was like when they were new and inexperienced may be more effective in assisting others in their professional development.
Empathy Cultivates Bonds
Empathy Cultivates Bonds
Empathy cultivates bonds between mentors and protégés and fosters the mutual commitment that exemplifies mentoring.
Nurture
Nurture
Nurturing emphasizes a caring attitude.
Farmer Analogy
Farmer Analogy
Like a farmer tends to the field, the mentor nurtures the protégé, by investing:
- Time
- Patience
- Effort
Make Time and Effort
Make Time + Effort
Mentors must make the time and effort to effectively mentor their protégés and provide the appropriate amounts of:
- Attention
- Training
- Feedback
- Time for them to apply, internalize, and value what they have learned
Teach
Teach
The skill of teaching may not come naturally to everyone, but knowledge and experience are valuable as mentors.
Five Steps for Teaching
5 Teaching Steps
Consider these five simple steps when teaching and training protégés:
- Organize the material into logical, systematic units of manageable size
- Correct errors immediately
- Frequently review previously covered material and relate the material to the current lesson
- Include practical exercises to help the protégé exercise the newfound knowledge
- Evaluate protégé progress and provide detailed feedback