Common Nonverbal Quirks
Why Address Quirks
Quirks Awareness
While seeking opportunities to sharpen public speaking skills, practice to eliminate some of the crutches or habits that speakers sometimes fall into.
Tips Help Awareness
Tips on overcoming nervous habits are included here to help public speakers become consciously aware of them and work to overcome them before stepping into the spotlight.
Life Raft
Life Raft Definition
The life raft is a term used when a speaker seeks the safety and security of a podium as though his or her life depends upon it.
When the Podium Is Necessary
When Podium OK
Sometimes standing at the podium is necessary when using:
- A stationary microphone
- A script
- Notes
Venture When Possible
Venture from Podium
While this is an acceptable place for a speaker to stand, when possible, try to venture away from the podium to connect better with the audience.
Awkward Hands
Awkward Hands Definition
Awkward hands are typically MORE OF A FEELING the speaker has than it is an observation of the audience.
Natural Hanging
Natural Hand Hang
Simply allowing hands to hang naturally may feel awkward, but it's perfectly natural from the audience's perspective.
Practice Method
Practice Hands
Practice allowing your hands to hang naturally, and it'll eventually begin to feel natural.
Caged Tiger
Caged Tiger Definition
The caged tiger is a term used when a speaker paces across a stage from one side to the other without stopping.
Use Width Purposefully
Use Width
Using the width of a stage to connect with an audience is a good idea, just be sure NOT to pace back and forth to where the audience feels like they're watching a tennis match.
Natural Rhythm
Natural Rhythm
Relax and settle into a natural rhythm of using the stage purposefully.
Rocker
Rocker Definition
Rockers are caged tigers on the road to recovery.
Settled But Not Still
Rocker Behavior
Rockers have settled their nervous energy somewhat, but still have not become completely comfortable with standing still and simply talking.
Conscious Effort
Conscious Effort to Stop
As you practice, make a conscious effort NOT to fall into the habit of:
- Rocking on your heels
- Swaying side to side
Practice = Confidence
Practice = Standing Still
Much like allowing your hands to hang naturally at your side, with practice you will become more comfortable simply standing confidently and addressing an audience.
Too Cool
Too Cool Definition
Some speakers overcompensate for a fear of speaking by trying to look extremely comfortable.
The Trade-Off
Relaxed vs Disinterested
It is a good idea to appear relaxed, but NOT at the expense of appearing unengaged or disinterested in speaking to your audience.
Don't Lose Audience
Keep Audience Attention
You may have conquered your nerves, but keep in mind that you want to reach your audience and keep their attention.